Ouch! |
This excerpt is from the "Runners' Knees Lesson."
Three days later I was running the same route in the daylight with some middle school cross country runners. Things were going well until one little guy decided to trip on the edge of the pavement. He went down fast, landing hard on his right knee. He also left a bit of flesh on the road! I convinced him to walk for a bit. He eventually began a slow jog and then finished the run! We took a photo of our matching runners’ knees and developed mutual respect for one another. It was a bonding experience!
Shared trials can create and strengthen lasting
relationships. Think about an old
roommate from college. You studied,
starved, and stayed up too late together.
Prior to those experiences you may never have sought her out in a crowd.
However, the time spent together as struggling young adults cemented your
friendship and you still send Christmas cards to one another.
Some friends have been made by experiencing the same trials,
although not at the same times, such as those who reached out to me in
friendship and understanding after the sorrow of miscarriage. Their ability to
empathize came from a difficulty of their own.
Although they were no longer in the middle of the same trial, their
ability to express understanding at a time when it was greatly needed left a
lasting impression on me. For some, I
can remember the very instant they reached out to me, where we were, and
especially how it made me feel. It gave
me hope."Do you have a friendship that was forged through a shared experience? I would love to hear about it.
Happy Running!
Watch for The Hard Run: Painful Lessons from a Running Granny due for release in January 2015.
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